What women want - how to understand

Olga Nagornyuk
28.08.2015

What do women want - how to understand?

Over the centuries, men, wanting to gain power over those whom they have named the weaker sex, have unsuccessfully searched for the answer to the questionWhat do women desire?Lined up hypotheses, opinions were expressed, but so far the solution to the phenomenon of women has not been found. We will try to lift the veil of secrecy, talking about the desires of women from the point of view of the woman herself.

What women want: the opinion of scientists

Science is a strict lady, she believes only in figures and reasoned evidence. Sociologists, who set themselves the goal of finding out whether the preferences of adult women are changing compared to girlish desires, conducted a study and concluded:

  • For girls between the ages of 18 and 24, marriage is a priority. They expect from a man to get what they lack in life: love, care, a sense of security, material stability, etc .;
  • From 25 to 37, a woman has an acute need for self-search and self-realization. Business ladies build a successful career, housewives find their destiny in raising children, and creative people are looking for self-expression in art;

Business woman

  • From 38 to 46 years old women are in dire need of love. They have already taken place as a business woman, mother, artist, reached certain heights and results. It is time to feel, as in early youth, attractive and loved;
  • after 47 years, the majority of the fair sex begins to depression, due to physiological processes in the body and the fear of old age. Therefore, the main need at this stage is attention and care, which make a woman believe that she is needed and still loved.

What women want: women's opinion

Most men think: women want money. In principle, this answer is correct, but we would clarify: not so much money, but the fact that this money can provide - confidence in the future, comfort, the opportunity to be healthy and prolong youth, give a decent education to children.

 

You must agree that there is nothing unworthy of such desires, and money is not a goal, but only a means to help achieve it.

 

However, the desires of women are not limited to this.

From men, women are expected to:

  • love, care and attention. The woman has the nature of the need to love and be loved.Even a tough business woman wants to return home to a loved one who will hug, listen and allow her to be at least weak and vulnerable;

Love and attention

  • feelings of security and confidence in the future. For centuries, the lot of women was marriage and motherhood: the husband provided the family, the wife kept the household and raised the children. To break this stereotype for several decades is impossible. Therefore, women still expect: the husband must be the guarantor of material well-being;
  • support The ability of a man to overcome not only his own difficulties, but also to help his own woman solve problems in the eyes of the latter is worth a lot. Regularly going with the pregnant wife to the hospital, to meet her beloved from the evening courses, to stand up in front of the harassing boss, to approve her decision to quit when the work brings nothing but disappointment - these are examples of support that women count on;
  • respect. A woman needs to be listened to and considered with her opinion. This increases its self-esteem and importance in their own eyes. You think that she is wrong, try to convince and find a compromise, but do not end the conversation with destructive "As I said, it will be so";
  • loyaltyAn adult woman sees in fidelity not only a manifestation of love, but also a confirmation of respect for her from her partner;

Fidelity

  • romance. And women over 30, and a lady over 40, and ladies over 50 want surprises and pleasant surprises. But if at 20 the girls were happy with the inscriptions under the window “Happy birthday, darling!”, Then as they matured, they change their taste tastes: they want to have a romantic dinner in a restaurant, go to the theater, go to Paris for the weekend.

Adult woman becomes wiser. In adolescence, one-time bursts of romantic relationships can be mistaken for love, and after stepping over a 30-year milestone, you begin to understand: the real feeling is when:

 

the husband gets up at night to feed the crying baby to give his wife tired of the day;

 

day after day he brings his spouse to work, although he needs to go the other way, but then she will have to get with transfers;

 

never in 20 years of marriage did not reproach his wife, who never learned how to cook delicious borsch.

 

This is what women expect from a man. And sweets, bouquets, compliments are just a nice addition that will not replace the main thing - attention and care.

Women want from life:

A happy family

  • beautiful and comfortable home.Her home is perceived as a family nest, where she will raise children, play with her grandchildren, where love and happiness will live forever;
  • financial independence. Despite romance and sentimentality, women are pragmatic in nature and understand perfectly well: at any moment a man can disappear from her life, and she will have to provide for herself and the children herself. Therefore, today there are fewer housewives and more and more business ladies;
  • never grow old and look elegant. The desire to attract the male is inherent in the woman by nature. Hence, trips to spas and beauty salons, gyms and boutiques;
  • see the world. In her youth, during the holidays she pulls on the beach, and in her mature age, a woman begins to appreciate the impressions of visiting new places. And let it be not Paris, but colorful Odessa or ancient Novgorod, the main thing is to look and enjoy;

Paris

  • happiness to your children. True, each of them interprets the concept of happiness in its own way, and therefore their own children choose different ways to achieve a happy future.

Have we solved the mystery of the female soul? Have they become clearer and more accessible after reading this article? We do not know, after all, how many women, so many different characters.But we are sure of one thing: everyone wants to see a decent man next to him.


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